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Pleasure and happiness:
What is the difference between fun and happiness?
Pleasure is short-term, linked to dopamine, while happiness is long-term, linked to serotonin.
They are two different cases.
Pleasure is sensory, but happiness is emotional, psychological and mental.
Pleasure, including sex and the moment of winning or getting money, can be part of a greater, broader and more comprehensive happiness, but it is not happiness itself.
Pleasure can be bought, happiness cannot be bought. And pleasure can turn into an addiction, but happiness is a state of health that makes a person better, and sees in others a favor.
There are people who have a high level of serotonin, which is hereditary, and their genes give them this predisposition to happiness like me. But each one can work on himself to generate this hormone by thinking positively.
Pleasure is mostly taking only, but happiness is giving and taking, and what you do for others may be the source of your happiness.
I seek happiness and the happiness of those around me.
I am a man who thank God for my optimistic genes.
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Alons:
For me, the loneliness comes from man, i.e. the most beautiful thing in humanity of tranquility, comfort and joy without noise, and pleasure without extremism.
What a beautiful monastery.
Al-Wanis is the person whose presence prevents you from feeling lonely and anxious just because of his presence and without doing anything.
The friend Alonus is a blessing.
If there is in your life a “was man” keep it.
It is easy to find someone who shares life with you, but for him to be your honor, this is a great blessing if you knew.
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Insulated and Connected:
I am isolated but connected. Without socializing but I’m not alone.
Warning but I live.
Social media has made me a global citizen.
My hobbies have become a part of my day.
Reading and knowledge are food for my brain.
My family expanded with friends and people in my country and peoples of the world.
Corona is an ordeal that has deepened my sense of collective humanity.
The globe is breathing and we are with it.
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love is:
Love is to wake up and tell someone that you can’t talk, that this life is ridiculous, that you are sad. Worse, you feel that this sadness may last unnecessarily. You tell him that you have lost your resistance and you only hear the whining inside you, so you find him telling you.. that he loves you.. he supports you and does not ask for an excuse for your sadness. He doesn’t accuse you of being weak, or pressure you to be better.
Love is telling someone every morning that you see yourself in the mirror ugly, and he tells you that he still sees you beautiful and shining, and his soul and heart remain with yours and your heart.
Love is to be there, even if others are gone.
Love is for your presence to be fuel for comfort, smile and tenderness.
Love transcends thinking, merging the mind with the heart, making its beats music, placing in every thought flowers from your lover, and breezes from his nectar.
Love is strange, because even by repeating its events, it remains without boredom, but is renewed.
Love.. a smile, a meeting and survival between ecstasy and worship.
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My ambitions:
I must have a ceiling for my ambitions, as it is difficult for any person to rise to the level of my belief in him when I love him.
I’d better go back to my old theory, which has protected me over the years.
I do not expect anything from any creature at any time under any circumstances.
And everything that comes from others is an unexpected gift that I rejoice in and thank him for.
Thus, I do not grieve, nor get angry, nor blame, nor reprimand.
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Unwilling to argue and quarrel:
She said to him: I have a lot to tell you.
He said: If what you want to say is an expression of yourself, it must be as beautiful as you.
If what you want to say is monetary for me, as you are accustomed to, then the time is not appropriate, even if it is out of your fear of harm to me.
If what you want is love, friendliness and smiles, then welcome it, easy and easy, it quenches thirst like rivers.
If what you want to say is an expression of pain in yourself, or an expression of sadness or even despondency, I am all ears.
I am just not ready to engage in controversy and self-defense or justification, or apology or having to distance, and hide, for fear of your insistent nature.
I wish for closeness, a desire for pleasure, a closeness and an exchange of what is beautiful.
Even in difference I want us to be free.
I do not want a test of my friendship in every meeting, nor a justification for my behavior in every dialogue.
I want us free.
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In friendship with women:
Friendship is all love and peace of mind.
The beauty of friendship is that there is no blame in it and there is no need to justify an act or an absence.
Friendship gets rid of the stress of marriage, and it can be partnered with, and it does not require pleasing the friend, but rather being as you are.
In friendship, time is relative, years may pass and you meet a friend, as if it were yesterday.
In friendship there is joy without cost, support without price, and a tender embrace and chest in the moment of need.
The origin of friendship is sincerity in feeling and expression, there is no need for anything else.
In friendship, trust is not tested in every shot, and love does not take a test because it does not need a certificate to prove it.
The morning is the love and joy of friendship, the pride and permanence of friendship, and its freedom.
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Love between fate and destiny:
His companion said to him: Why don’t you choose me to be your girlfriend?
He said: I do not choose in love and passion.
She said: If you choose the clever glimpse, then this is me.
silence..
She said: If you choose the beautiful attractive, then here is me.
He said: Love, my friend, is not a choice. If love begins with a choice, it will end with another choice.
The issue is not competition with criteria to choose the smartest, the best, the richest and the most beautiful, but rather a spiritual and physical alignment and integration that comes without calculations.
Love for me is a moment of happiness with a passion that makes it inflamed, and longing can be drawn from the soul, so there is no escape from it.
If we calculate love and adoration with paper and pen, it is not love, and it is not love.
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My sayings:
■ “We are crazy if we can’t think… fanatics if we don’t want to think… and slaves if we don’t dare to think.” Plato
■ “Some are raised by sin, and some by virtue.” William Shakespeare
■ “Be the change you want to see in this world.” Gandhi
■ “He who dares to waste an hour of his time has not yet discovered the value of life.” Charles Darwin
■ “There is no way to peace, but peace is the way” Gandhi
■ “The best way to abolish a bad law is to enforce it hard.” Abraham Lincoln
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You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all of the time, but you cannot fool all the people all of the time.” Abraham Lincoln
■ “Every vessel narrows with what is placed in it except the vessel of knowledge, for it expands.” Imam Ali bin Abi Talib
■ “The difficult problems we face cannot be solved by applying the same intellectual approach that we used when creating such problems.” Albert Einstein
■ “We are a very, very poor nation, so we should spend on education generously.” Nehru
